What a great puzzle! Challenging and so many clever and misdirecting clues. The only bit I couldn't work out, weirdly, was the straight for 9d. I get ID (puzzle writer would) in (bore) ABED (sleeping or probably sleeping). But I can't see how "probably" or &lit give ABIDED.
Thanks! I'm glad you got a kick out of it! For 9D, the definition is "bore" (As in "I can't abide it"="I can't bear it"), and "with" is the containment indicator.